As we come up to the end of 2019 and are on the brink of 2020 many of us are reflecting upon this past year and decade. Our joys and sorrows, our victories and defeats, our gains and losses, our inspirations and perhaps where we let others down or were let down. It’s natural to do this inside ourselves. But do we realize that the energy we bring to relationships and situations is what we are responsible for and have control over in our lives?
It is said that every ending is a new beginning. And all of life is relational even with ourselves. How we complete is how we begin. So we would do ourselves a favor if we prepared for the way we’d like to finish the year and decade in order to usher in how we begin the next one. When we spend our energy and focus wanting things to end we forget to focus on how our energy and time bring the rewards for where we are headed.
Let’s say we want a new place to live because we dislike where we are due to not enough space, location, etc.. How are you going to prepare and finish well so that you make space for that new place? Will you declutter and clean up? Will you make where you currently live as ideal as you can in the meantime? And, when you are living in that new place will you steward it with care and love so that you live in appreciation of it? Perhaps you want to meet someone yet have no room in your life for what a new relationship entails. How are you making yourself that person who is ready to have someone share their life with them? Start preparing for a relationship by becoming the person you’d like to attract. Are you changing your habits, taking loving care of yourself, making room for that person to be a part of your life? When you’re part of a pair, stubborn and set ways will make it harder so what needs to change to make room for someone? Making the most of where it is we are now is how we change the energy of what is next to begin. Otherwise, we just drag that baggage with us into the next phase.
Order and structure are a necessary part of the plan if we’re to realize our hopes and dreams. Often when we do our part to step out in faith and prepare, the outcomes are more beautiful than we could ever imagine on our own. But we have to prepare to finish well so that we can handle what is around the bend. We’re often in such a hurry to end something and being rid of it that we end it carelessly and neglect the preparation for the new beginning. Whatever it is for you, finish this year and decade well. Don’t stop doing all you can to bring all of your best self to the table right where you are because you just want it to be done. Leave your living space better than you found it, be the ideal mate for someone before you meet that other person, do everything to leave your job in the best shape possible for the next employee. You get the idea.
Finishing well sets you up for a beginning that is most certainly coming. If you end something badly then you go stumbling and grumbling into what’s next. Walk into the new season with courage and confidence knowing that you honored what was finished. When you walk into the new knowing that you’ve done everything in your power to finish well the future is just that much brighter.
So finish well so you can begin well. The things we prepare and get ready for are the things that show up in our lives. That’s when grace happens.
Happy New Year,
~Pat